While attending a university, it is hard not to identify one's self with the major that one is studying, and the career that they wish to pursue when out of college. I am currently an electrical engineering major at Texas A&M University, and all I do every day is math, science, and design. So, naturally, a dominant part of my personality is involved with the numbers I happen to be crunching and the physics behind our everyday lives. But there is certainly much more that defines me, and everyone else, than the job that I wish to acquire out of school.
This is an effect that, I believe, comes from the American culture. Our whole lives we are asked what "we want to be when we grow up?" As if our growth, as people, suddenly comes to a halt when we evolve into our final form and choose a career. When John Doe is introduced to some new friends at a barbecue two things come out first and foremost: Name and Rank (meaning career). This is almost equivalent to being assigned a binary identification number in lieu of a name. Whoever has a bigger number is more successful in life. Never mind that John is an excellent cook. Never mind that he enjoys sailing, or that he has a beautiful wife and a cat named Bubbles.
Americans place too much value on career and wealth. Success should not be defined based on income, but should vary from person to person. The "Protestant Work Ethic" is a relic from an old world. Things are different now.
What is your opinion on the identity crisis that currently grips the nation? Love to hear your side!