For example, there is a story in my family that has been told for a long time now. It involves my great great grandfather in Greece. My Papou (grandpa) tells the story like this:
A long time ago in Greece, our family name was Kanellis, and my great great grandfather was a great big hairy man. He was so hairy, that he looked like a bear, and his friends called him, ironically, Spanos. Spanos means 'clean shaven' or 'hairless'. He eventually got so used to the name that he changed it legally to Spanos, and now our family name is Spanos.
Papou tells the story truthfully, but it is not the same as when my Yaya (grandma) tells the same story. Yaya is a much better storyteller than Papou, so when Yaya tells the story, she explains everything in much greater detail. She describes the house that my great grandfather lived in, and the names of all his friends who joked with him. She even made sure to explain all the Greek to me. "Kanellis is a name for someone with cinnamon colored hair" she would say. Between the both of them, I learned the same story, but each of them told it in their own way. My Papou is a tough man of few words, and when he does speak, he speaks mostly Greek. While Yaya is a creative and gentle soul, who loves to entertain her grandchildren. Their versions of the story reflect their personalities and the way they connect with people. Do you have any examples of stories that are different when told by different people? Please share!
I find it intriguing that you use your own family story to make an interesting point on how culture effects the lives of individualistic views and social views. I have stories of my grandfathers ( one Korean and one American) during the Korean War, and they each have their own point of view. I find it funny when they both end their stories with "and we won the war and came home to our families."
ReplyDeleteI definitely can relate to your experience with two different versions of the same story. It's funny how most of the time it is the women who go into great detail while the men just get down to the point and make sure that the main point of the story is given. I really enjoy listening to my grandparents tell these stories because it is interesting to see how they differ because of the storyteller.
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